Poetry has been to me its own exceeding great reward; it has given me the habit of wishing to discover the good and beautiful in all that meets and surrounds me.

He is the best physician who is the most ingenious inspirer of hope.

All sympathy not consistent with acknowledged virtue is but disguised selfishness.

No mind is thoroughly well organized that is deficient in a sense of humor.

People of humor are always in some degree people of genius.

Works of imagination should be written in very plain language; the more purely imaginative they are the more necessary it is to be plain.

Talent, lying in the understanding, is often inherited; genius, being the action of reason or imagination, rarely or never.

The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing... not healing, not curing... that is a friend who cares.

When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand.

Friendship has always belonged to the core of my spiritual journey.

Did I offer peace today? Did I bring a smile to someone's face? Did I say words of healing? Did I let go of my anger and resentment? Did I forgive? Did I love? These are the real questions. I must trust that the little bit of love that I sow now will bear many fruits, here in this world and the life to come.

Intimacy is not a happy medium. It is a way of being in which the tension between distance and closeness is dissolved and a new horizon appears. Intimacy is beyond fear.

Our Western society is showing its technological muscles in ever more threatening ways, but the experience of fear, anxiety and even despair has increased in equal proportion. Indeed, the paradox is that the powerful giants feel as powerless as a new-born babe.

If fear is the great enemy of intimacy, love is its true friend.

The journey from teaching about love to allowing myself to be loved proved much longer than I realised.

The real enemies of our life are the 'oughts' and the 'ifs.' They pull us backward into the unalterable past and forward into the unpredictable future. But real life takes place in the here and now.

The Christian leaders of the future have to be theologians, persons who know the heart of God and are trained - through prayer, study, and careful analysis - to manifest the divine event of God's saving work in the midst of the many seemingly random events of their time.

Jesus didn't say, 'Blessed are those who care for the poor.' He said, 'Blessed are we where we are poor, where we are broken.' It is there that God loves us deeply and pulls us into deeper communion with himself.

God is a God of the present. God is always in the moment, be that moment hard or easy, joyful and painful.

Perhaps nothing helps us make the movement from our little selves to a larger world than remembering God in gratitude. Such a perspective puts God in view in all of life, not just in the moments we set aside for worship or spiritual disciplines. Not just in the moments when life seems easy.

God wants you to live for others and to live that presence well.

In our production-oriented society, being busy, having an occupation, has become one of the main ways, if not the main way, of identifying ourselves. Without an occupation, not just our economic security but our very identity is endangered.

When we have nothing to cling to as our own and cease thinking of ourselves as people who must defend privileges, we can open ourselves freely to others with the faithful expectation that our strength will manifest itself in our shared weakness.

Most Christian leadership is exercised by people who do not know how to develop healthy, intimate relationships and have opted for power and control instead. Many Christian empire-builders have been people unable to give and receive love.

To be a Christian who is willing to travel with Christ on his downward road requires being willing to detach oneself constantly from any need to be relevant, and to trust ever more deeply the Word of God.

The fruits of your labors may be reaped two generations from now. Trust, even when you don't see the results.

Waiting is a period of learning. The longer we wait, the more we hear about him for whom we are waiting.

Solitude is very different from a 'time-out' from our busy lives. Solitude is the very ground from which community grows. Whenever we pray alone, study, read, write, or simply spend quiet time away from the places where we interact with each other directly, we are potentially opened for a deeper intimacy with each other.

People with handicaps teach me that being is more important than doing, the heart is more important than the mind, and caring together is better than caring alone.

Solitude is the place where we can connect with profound bonds that are deeper than the emergency bonds of fear and anger.

Discipline means to prevent everything in your life from being filled up. Discipline means that somewhere you're not occupied, and certainly not preoccupied. In the spiritual life, discipline means to create that space in which something can happen that you hadn't planned or counted on.

The greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity or power, but self-rejection.

If I am what I have and if I lose what I have who then am I?

There can be no real freedom without the freedom to fail.

Just as modern mass production requires the standardization of commodities, so the social process requires standardization of man, and this standardization is called equality.

Why should society feel responsible only for the education of children, and not for the education of all adults of every age?

Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need not be deserved.

Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'

Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.

In love the paradox occurs that two beings become one and yet remain two.

Man always dies before he is fully born.

The capacity to be puzzled is the premise of all creation, be it in art or in science.

We all dream; we do not understand our dreams, yet we act as if nothing strange goes on in our sleep minds, strange at least by comparison with the logical, purposeful doings of our minds when we are awake.

Both dreams and myths are important communications from ourselves to ourselves. If we do not understand the language in which they are written, we miss a great deal of what we know and tell ourselves in those hours when we are not busy manipulating the outside world.

The danger of the past was that men became slaves. The danger of the future is that men may become robots.

The mother-child relationship is paradoxical and, in a sense, tragic. It requires the most intense love on the mother's side, yet this very love must help the child grow away from the mother, and to become fully independent.

The successful revolutionary is a statesman, the unsuccessful one a criminal.

There is no meaning to life except the meaning man gives his life by the unfolding of his powers.

Creativity requires the courage to let go of certainties.

To hope means to be ready at every moment for that which is not yet born, and yet not become desperate if there is no birth in our lifetime.